A GIRL'S LIFE (part 1)

A girls life is full of struggle. It starts even before her birth that is when she is in her mother's womb seeing and feeling the world by the help of her mother.she struggles to come into this world as many people try to kill her just because she is a girl.then she struggles with neglect. She is neglected by family members.Her mind and body both suffer and have adverse effect of this neglect. Then she tris to be like other boyes and men around her. She wants to become one of them wants to get acsepted. She strives hard but gets scoled at.She is then pressurised to do household work. She wants to go to school. Wants to get educated. But again, she is kept at home. Then she is married to a boy which she has never seen and that marraige is also without her concern and aganist her will. She know has to adjust to this new environment. In husbands house also she has no voice.She is always dominated and treated like a slave. no one appriciates her work. Along with all this mental problems she has to face the pain of pregnancy and delivery. After few years when her son grows up he also dosent give her any importance as he has seen her being treated that way so he follow their suit. She strives hard for family and dies a pittyfuf death.
            this senario is common in many parts of the world. in india women are still facing all these problems. i think we need to change. all indians must came together and do there best to improve this condition. so unite people. and fight for her rights

TO LIVE WITH A PAINTER

To live with a painter is very very difficult. They are a bit weird and whimsical people.What will they do & when just cant be anticipated. eg they may ask you to prepare their dinner at 2 o'clock at night. They will wear any thing they want and will rome the city in that painted clothes. They are in their own world. My hubby is not at all different than any other painter. He is a freelancer. For me to adjust to this was a bit of test. This can be done. This is hard but not impossible task. These painters or artists are very sensitive and good at heart. There is a lot to learn when you are with this kind of people. You see world in a very different world altogether, and they give you these eyes to look at world in that way. It  is a test of your patience. These people are like blot papers. They continuously take in information & and they have art of painting by which they express the blotted information. It feels brilliant when you see a painting come to live by your own eyes. Its like his own baby. I am proud to be a painter's wife. And will always be.

WHAT ARE WE DOING?

Many a times we think about what we are doing? Is this what we want? Is this the thing we strive for? I often ask these questions to me when I am alone. We live in a very competitive world. Is this the life we want? Do we really want to compete with one another? What do we get from that? I personally believe that we need no competition. We need to be free to do what we want and how much we want. Just because he\she is good at it doesn't make you good at it. Every one has their strong points. We have to work on these strong points and move forward. We not only are ourselves sinking in this sea but are even drowning our children. From the very childhood we say that we live in competitive world, you have to score more marks etc. is this right? Why are we spoiling their lives? Who gave us this right? let them do what they wish. Let them be free, let them enjoy. We strive for our childhood so i think we know what it means. So do not compete. If you want to  then compete with your own selves.